Children's waywardness, motherhood
Author: Hits: 11026 Updated: 7/5/2010 15:22:00 article entry: admin
Some children came back from the kindergarten, jumping and jumping in the room without stopping, crawling to the sofa for a while, and crawling to the bed, the room was messed up, and he was sweating and flushed; When some children watch TV, they always like to increase the volume so much that the family ca n’t talk, study and rest. Whoever wants to say a few words, he makes a loud noise, no matter whether the ground is water or mud, lying on the ground Crying and screaming; some children often send "people are crazy", and guests come and like to carry things around, throw a rag doll, and then throw a small pillow, and even kick a slipper into a pot of fragrant Chicken soup.
The willfulness of the child gives parents a headache. Faced with wayward children, parents often can't hold back their urges, scold and scold their heads, and simply handle this embarrassing situation. But after a few days, the child's willfulness remained the same. So what should children do?
According to the research of some foreign behavioral scientists, we propose the following methods for parents to choose from.
First, take a short rest. For the jumping child, as a punishment, take the child into another hut to get him out of the excited environment, look at him calmly with two eyes, and force him to rest for a while.
Second, divert attention. If the child likes to throw things in front of the guests, you may wish to set a nylon target on the door of the house. When the guests come, with the consent of the guests, everyone throws together to see who can throw them accurately. This not only satisfies the child's desire for expression, but also enables the child to learn to restrain himself from the rules of the game, so that the disorderly disorder moves into an orderly competition.
Third, a gentle hint. If the child is playing with the volume of the TV, you must not yell and scold, you might as well make a gentle movement in front of his eyes, and then ask him: "You know, how does mom like to watch TV?" And asked him: "Why does mom like to do this?"
Fourth, cultivate self-management awareness. One of the most fundamental reasons for willfulness is the child's lack of self-control and self-management ability. Paying attention to cultivating children's self-management awareness is an effective method. For example, ask the child to put the finished toy in the cabinet, and cover the pillow with a pillow after sleeping and getting up. Over time, he will learn to restrain himself and form a good self-management habit.